Monday, August 26, 2024

" The Other Williamsburg" by Shelly Sitzer - 2023 Brooklyn Non-Fiction Prize Finalist "

 

The Other Williamsburg

 

By Shelly Sitzer

 

     My grandfather on my mother’s side came to this country in 1892. He settled on the lower east side of Manhattan where he opened a haberdashery shop with my grandmother by his side. They had several children, of which my mother was one. She later moved with them when they purchased a house in Williamsburg, Brooklyn on a street named Hooper.

     When my mother married, she wanted to remain close to her mother, my grandfather having passed away by then.  That’s how my parents came to be living in a brownstone at 232 Rodney Street, approximately 3 blocks from my grandmother’s house.

 

     As this was the time when very few people owned cars, I think my mother enjoyed the convenience of being able to walk over to see her mother every day.  There was a practical side to living so close to grandma, too.  My parents were what you might call, "struggling to make a living.”  They didn’t even own a refrigerator. The icebox sat in one corner of our kitchen, to be filled each day with ice from the iceman and a bottle of milk that mom stored in grandma’s refrigerator.

     Such conveniences we had in our kitchen!  I recall the “dumbwaiter” for garbage disposal. We had only to open a door in the other corner of the kitchen and there, hung by strong ropes, was a shelf waiting for us to put the garbage on. Perhaps this was why we had little mice in the kitchen, mostly underneath the table. My mother was always setting out mice traps for them!

     I couldn’t figure out why my mother did not like the quality of living in our apartment on Rodney Street in the year 1949. She would talk about her dreams of moving us to a “nicer apartment” every day. I, on the other hand, found my sense of identity in these four rooms in a brownstone with a big stoop, on a block with a large sidewalk.  I was an only child living with two parents on a block that held everything I could ever want. With a freedom that many children do not enjoy today, I was privileged to be able to go out to play any time of day, freely and with abandon. I opened my front door to the wonderful sounds of children at play.  “Johnny May I Cross Your Golden River” and “Red Rover Cross Over” were the phrases that greeted my every day. One of the first songs I learned, I sang to jumping rope, “On the mountain stands a lady, who she is I do not know.”  

     I had numerous friends, always outside waiting to play. Williamsburg was a blend of people from many cultures with a large percentage of them Hassidic Jews. I spent a lot of time with the Rabbi’s daughter who lived across the street.  My most cherished friends were two chubby twin girls, Susan and Marilyn Zik.  They lived up the block in an apartment house and would come by with a new craft project almost every day. Always delighted to join them on my brownstone stoop, we worked diligently on our brightly colored woolen “horse reins”, this being a way to weave a rug, which somehow never got finished, but always stayed in a tin can waiting for more stitching.

     Some days the twins and I would make tissue paper carnations from colored tissue. They somehow always knew how to make things. . I was an avid learner.  My stoop wasn’t just for making crafts. I developed my lifelong love for corn on the cob and watermelon when my mother would place them in my hands to bring outside and enjoy. Long summer afternoons spent eating red Chinese apples, nugget by nugget, with my friends in front of my house would eventually disappear like the plastic bubbles we created.                                                      

     Each day brought hours of games. A ball and stick of chalk were all I needed to design hopscotch on the sidewalk. Halloween was the best time of all because the neighborhood children decorated the sidewalks with drawings of brightly colored pumpkins.

     Evenings were special times. My dad was home from work. When he wasn’t pouring over The World Telegram & Sun for the news, he would join my friends and I by standing on the top step of our brownstone with a crowd of children around him. He worked at the Brooklyn Navy Yard, but must have been an entertainer at heart because he loved to do cord tricks before a crowd. He could take one string, blow on it, and turn it into two. Sometimes, he would just hold his hands by his mouth and imitate the sound of a train whistle.

     Eventually, I was allowed to walk over to grandma’s house by myself. Looking back, I realize that I had so much freedom for a 6 year old!   I marvel at it all today, as all these memories, sounds and smells play through my mind.

     Several years ago, on a trip back to NY, for the Rosh Hashanah holiday, I said to my husband, “I need to see Williamsburg again.”  The truth was, I needed to see if it was real, if it had happened the way I thought it had.  Were the same streets still there?  My parents and I had moved away when I was ten. A highway was to be put in and we were paid to move out, $100 per room.  I now know that it was the Brooklyn Queens Expressway.  I was the one who took the inspector around to show him the number of rooms, as my mother had gone out to work by that time. “Be sure to tell him we have five rooms,” she would repeat to me.  She even painted one room two colors where the molding was to make it look like two!  I did as I was told and we got the $500 just as she had wanted!                                                     

  So now it was time to find out what this place looked like. Did it really exist, this neighborhood brimming with life and children, so different from the bucolic scene that surrounds us now in the mountain area of western North Carolina where my husband and I now live?

     Yes, we did go back to Williamsburg.  We started our sojourn along its updated section and perused a couple of the trendy shops on a street that leads to a promenade where pedestrians enjoy views of the spectacular old Brooklyn Bridge. We explored the revival taking place filled with newer stores, small eateries and streets lined with vendors selling mostly second hand clothes and books.  I, on the other hand, couldn’t wait to explore the Williamsburg that I remembered, the neighborhood where I had grown up. I knew that my house could not possibly be there because of the highway built in the 50’s.                                                       

   We walked, I, my husband, my sister in law and brother in law, the four of us, about 2 miles, on this quest of mine to find Rodney Street.  When we reached the Brooklyn Queens Expressway, my heart quickened!  What was on the other side of it?  Then we saw it, Rodney Street, still a one way street, with the BQE occupying the side across the street from where I had lived!       My feet hurt and yet I walked fast as I looked at the house numbers to see where number 232 would have been. That’s when I found it, At first I thought that perhaps this had been my house!  It looked identical to the one I grew up in.  It stared at me like a ghost from another life.  I went immediately on to the stoop and sat down, reminiscing and feeling in heaven.  Suddenly, and just for a moment, my dad was there on the top step, with his hands to his mouth, blowing his phony train whistle. How could this be!  I knew the city had taken down my house. . But I felt like I was home. We walked, the four of us, tired as we were, on to Keep Street and then to Hooper to see my grandma’s house. . I knew the way by heart.  Her street, untouched by the highway, looked very                                               

much the same except for the empty lot that stood where grandma’s house had burned down after she had passed away.

     But just for that day, I was 10 again and sharing it with the ones I was with.  Rodney Street was mine to take in.  Except for the highway in plain view across the street, it had not been destroyed! Just to make it more real, a little girl rode by on her tricycle, just as I used to so many years before.

     After we left, I realized that the house I had seen was the adjoining one to my brownstone, the exact duplicate. It had been spared by the demolition crews. Even the small hallway with its tiny old fashioned bells on the wall for the tenants to ring had looked the same when I peeked inside, when for one dreamlike September afternoon, I returned home and it was there.       

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